i don't know what happened

[Krinda]

i don't know what happened me and my bf have been together almost a year now and he suddenly decided to care less about me.

[sump]

it wasn't a fulfilling year together?

[mcclinton]

yes it was, very much so it seems his attitude has changed though

[wonderly]

well it if was fulfilling why would his attitude change? ("i'm having an amazing year with this woman and we are growing together so much, so i will care for her less and hurt her feelings"... yeah ok) you should ask him if it was fulfilling because i know you didn't.

[dinapoli]

he tells me almost daily how lucky he is to have me. eh, maybe it's all lies just like the last one. but letting that kind of petty bullshit even enter my thoughts is ridiculous and immature.

[stasio]

does he SHOW you?

[gilliard]

yes, usually he's very sweet and caring. lately though he just seems irritated with me and has been sleeping a lot.

[weekly]

definitely signs of sleeping with other women

[sedlak]

i doubt he's sleeping with other women when he works graveyard shift, comes home, sleeps all day, and smokes pot and sits at home til it's time to go to work again. i'm almost ready to just leave, but i have no where to go.

[claassen]

People get depressed, you know. He could feel as though he's in a rut in life and having the consistency of things not change for the past year could irk him. You don't have anywhere to go? As in, you live with him or something?

[cissna]

yes, precisely. my dumb ass moved x hours away from family to be with him. now i'm really regretting it, because i can't just take off for a few days when i need space. i just have to let things blow over. and it's not working very well any more.

[newbury]

if he's depressed and smoking pot, there's no way in hell he's as fulfilled with you as YOU think he is. men are complicated creatures with feelings deep down. they are not as shallow as women make them out to be. you could try to up the bjs, say two bjs a day. let me know how that goes for you. - the doc

[woolsey]

lol, bj's that didn't work on my ex.

[gropper]

you gotta know how to give them if your ex is used to getting sex and bjs like x or x times a week (on average, much more when it spikes) then... you have your job cut out for you